Words of Wisdom from the Past, Pt. 1

2010
03.10

There’s an old joke that goes something like this: “When I was 13, it amazed me how stupid my parents were. By the time I hit 20, I was amazed how much they had learned in the past 7 years”.

Looking back, certain people offered words of wisdom that I really didn’t  understand until my later years. One such piece of advice explains a lot about why people settle for “inferior products or services”.

My junior high teacher Cy Walker once said “If you’ve never seen a motorbike, how could you ever want one?”  At face value, that statement seems really quite simple. But take some time and ponder on it for a moment.

To make this simpler to illustrate, let’s say Suzy Q has only seen DJ Joe Bob perform. DJ Joe Bob has decided to use the cheapest equipment possible, has no formal training and illegally downloads his music free – usually unedited versions — from the internet. DJ Joe Bob shows up to perform dressed in his Black Sabbath T-shirt and motor-oil stains on his tattered jeans –whether it’s a bar gig or a wedding reception. During his performance, DJ Joe Bob doesn’t say much; He’s too busy drinking alcohol and trying to line up a post-party date. In Suzy Q’s mind, this is how EVERY DJ conducts business. She just doesn’t realize there’s something better to be had.

Now, let’s say we introduce Suzy Q to an event being hosted by DJ Fred. DJ Fred has invested in quality, professional-grade equipment. DJ Fred regularly educates himself about the latest trends in mobile entertainment and is always attempting to improve his presentation. As a matter of fact, DJ Fred adjusts his attire depending on the event: Tuxedo at weddings, business casual at corporate picnics and really cool clothes for bar gigs and school dances. DJ Fred’s music, karaoke and video library — even downloaded content – has been purchased from legitmate sources. Once the show starts, DJ Fred is verbally interactive with his party-goers, inspiring them to get active in the program to dance, sing, play games and more.

Who do you think Suzy Q would prefer to host and entertain at her next event?  Who would YOU choose?  The majority of consumers would rather have DJ Fred.  

But there is a segment of the population that has been indoctrinated into the mindset that quality doesn’t count but low price does. In their minds, all DJs are the same and the only difference is the price. Again, let’s simplify with a food analogy.

Just because an international restaurant serves millions and millions of burgers for 99-cents each, does that automatically mean that restaurant is the preferred place to have a meal? Given a choice, most of us who love steak will opt for another venue.

In closing, most people will choose quality and professionalism…and will pay more for it.  However, some won’t. So the next time you wonder how an inferior service remains in business, remember that some folks don’t expect quality. Those who realize there is something better to be had yet still choose the cheaper alternative, don’t deserve any better.

How to Prepare for the Bridal Show

2010
01.27

Magical Music will be displaying at a Bridal Show at the Cleveland Mall in Shelby, NC this Saturday, January 30 from Noon til 4 PM. If you or someone you know has a wedding in their future, encourage them to attend to see a variety of merchandise and services available for their wedding day.

Just as vendors prepare for a bridal show, those attending as consumers also need to prepare.

• Come armed with computer-generated labels with your name, mailing address, email and phone number. Many vendors require this information in order to register for prizes given away during the show. By providing this information on computer-generated labels, you avoid developing writer’s cramp. Also, many vendors will offer time-sensitive offers after the show. If you make it difficult for these vendors to contact you, you could potentially miss out on savings or upgrades. Finally, when you print your labels, use an easily-readable font or else your post-show offers don’t get delivered because someone had read your address or email incorrectly.

• Depending on the flow of attendees, take time to talk with vendors with whom you are interested. While price is certainly a concern, you DO NOT want to begin a conversation with “How Much Do You Charge?”  A vendor who will quote a price without first considering the demands of the event as well as your desired outcome will probably deliver a “cookie-cutter service”. Your wedding will be no different than any other wedding that vendor has serviced. You deserve better. Instead of starting off on the price factor, find out why this vendor is unique and how they can help you reach your desired vision for your wedding. A great source for interviewing wedding entertainment for instance is the American Disc Jockey Association. Find out more at www.adja.org.

• Pick up literature in the form of brochures, info packs or at least business cards. A wealth of information can be obtained just by marketing materials a vendor dispenses at a bridal show. Sort the collected material within a couple of days of the show. Compare the quality of material: It either impresses you and catches your interest or it does not. The quality of the marketing materials will tell you volumes when it comes to the quality that vendor places on his/her merchandise or services.

• Bring your checkbook! Though most brides attend wedding shows  researching vendors for the future, remember these vendors have limited availability. Most brides hold their weddings on Saturdays. Personally, if I work every weekend, I only have 52 potential availabilities per year – with thousands of brides in the state exchanging vows in 2010, chances are if you delay in reserving a vendor, another bride will beat you to the punch.

What brides can learn from a cheap haircut.

2010
01.23

Brides & Wedding Planners can learn from this!

Have you seen the new commercial for the office supply store — the one that shows a national chain hair salon opening up across from the neighborhood barber shop? The “new guys” are making a big deal of selling haircuts for $6 and everyone assumes the local barber will be driven out of business. Instead, he goes to Office Depot for storefront signs that read “We fix $6 haircuts”.  A few months later, the national hair salon closed. That commerical illustrates that experience is preferred over low price.

The same holds true for wedding entertainers. A skilled DJ will almost always trump the appeal of a low price.  The only exception is that a professional entertainer can’t fix the mess a cheap DJ makes of your wedding reception. Important life events such as weddings seldom provide “do overs”. That’s why it’s imperative to wisely choose an experienced, professional entertainer for your wedding.
In fact, the DJ is responsible for the vast majority of your wedding reception’s success. (Surveys indicate the DJ is responsible for 80% of the reception, but is budgeted for less than 3% of the wedding reception.) Imagine the extravaganza to which you could treat your guests if you simply doubled your entertainment budget to 6%!
Unfortunately, most folks have been brainwashed into thinking that all products/services are the same and the only variance is the price you’re asked to pay. Whether it’s haircuts or DJs, there is a difference from provider to provider. You can fix a cheap haricut; there is no fix for a cheap DJ.